Men Who Cheat On Their Wives!!!
I am not married, but, I am embarrassed to say that I was until
recently involved with a married man.
When Anthony and I became friends I was going through a very
rough period. I was lonely, hurt, not to mention depressed.
I was healing from a previous relationship. He was a real
charmer, and, a really nice person.
I have known Anthony for years (though we hardly spoke to
each other). His wife and I communicated more. Actually,
I had a crush on her. Yes, I am bi-sexual.
Circumstances caused Anthony and I to become close (friends)
and it was during this period that I revealed to him my feelings
towards his wife. Having revealed same he explored the
possibility of his wife and me share romantic moments.
Well, this was what he told me. Now that I think about it,
I dont think he ever did such a thing. Instead of
his wife and I getting together, Anthony and I started a
relationship. Well, at the time I thought it was a relationship.
He started visiting me. I remembered the first time he kissed
me; it was repulsive, because initially I didnt
share his feelings. Anyways, it so happens that I was charmed
by him and things went further than a kiss. He has a great
personality. You just cannot help to like him.
It is so amazing how a woman would give her all to a man and
get so little in return. Such fools we are.
Because he was married and he has his family, we both understood
that seeing each other would be limited. Not to mention
the fact that his wife watches him like a hawk. Well, so he
said.
He lived in one state and worked in another. We both lived
in the same state, but whenever I wanted to see him I would
have to drive to the state that he works. This is because
he stays away from home 3 times for the workweek. So, whenever
he doesnt go home, I would drive to where he was just
to see him.
Things had started to get really tense between us. I was
constantly accusing him of seeing other women. I started
checking his voicemail.
All hell broke loose when I found out that he was in fact seeing
me and how many other women, I dont really know.
I am sure they are countless, though I could
prove only 2. Even when I found out (with proof) about the
other 2 women I was holding on to him. Trying to convince
myself that I was making a mistake.
It became real when 3 of my girlfriend told me about his behavior
at a prominent nightclub; about his public display of affection
to another woman in full view of her and other persons in
the club who knew his wife.
The funny thing about it is that I was hurt, but I was even
more hurt for his wife.
One of my girlfriends to me that she actually went up to him,
so as to let him know that she and my other girlfriends were
there; Anna told me after having spoken to him, all he did
was continued kissing this other woman.
Of course I asked him about it, he said he was drunk and yes,
he was talking to a woman and dancing as he had previously
told me, but, he wasnt kissing anybody.
That same evening he and I spoke, and he said, we should start
over, be honest to each other. In light of this, I asked him
again about the woman at the club, he denied it.
I went to see him after this incident. He and I has sex, but
it just wasnt the same. I felt dirty. I really wasnt
into having sex with him. I felt resentment towards him.
That same evening he told me that he cannot be there for me,
therefore, he would like for me to find someone else. He
said nothing would change towards us, we would still see
each other, but, as he doesnt have enough time for
me, and he is not able to give me the emotional support that
I would like and that he would like me to get, then, it would
be best for me to get involved with someone. He went as far
as saying he knows things havent been the same between
us, all we do when we speak with quarrel. He indicated that
he was falling in love with me, but, having promised himself
that he would never love another woman but his wife, he started
avoiding me somewhat. LIES, LIES, LIES, LIES. HE JUST WANTED
AN EASY WAY OUT AND OF COURSE, MEN THINKS THAT ALL WOMEN ARE
IDIOTS, HE REALLY THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO BUY THAT.
The Friday night I called him and told him that it was over
[I was only being silly because it was already over]. When
I told him this he asked me, Why do you have to make
such an absolute decision?.
I put the pieces together about the woman he was with at the
nightclub. It was one of the women whose message I heard
on his voicemail. She is a teacher.
I called her, I harassed her as doing this would make him
get upset and also to let him know that I knew about her.
This woman apparently works in another state and visits
the state where we live occasionally. I had asked him if
he was involved with someone from Florida who teaches,
and he said no. I called her and it made him mad.
After all the pain he had put me through he wanted us to be
friends. A part of me wanted to but a part just did not. I could
not be his friend.
Right now I am hurting so much. He was the one who said to me
I should not get involved with another man and not tell him,
and he wouldnt get involve with anyone and not tell
me. I wanted to hurt him so badly. Our little fling lasted
1 year. He was tired of me and wanted to move on to the next
skirt.
Why am I sending this email?
I believe that women need to stop playing fools. Stop allowing
us to be used by these men. They treat us as if we are toys or
maybe their puppets. I also believe that married women
NEED to pay more attention to their husbands adulterous
lifestyle. A lot of wives are out there who knows that their
husbands are seeing other women and they have turned a blind
eye. YOU NEED TO SIMPLY STOP IT!!!!!
If you trust your husband thats fine because I am
not stirring up trouble. If you dont trust your
husband then its a different story. If you know
that your husband was a player before you got married, then
dont think that getting married and having children
is going to put a stop to it, because is it simply wont.
I believe in Karma, so I believe that this will face me one
day. I am ashamed, I feel dirty and used.
I sure hope that this message will give some wives a wake
up call.
During our relationship Anthony got drunk on one of the
occasion that I saw him. I was upset with him for getting
drunk. While I was showering he came in the shower. When
I was getting out he held onto me and we had sex in the shower.
Before this we were always careful. This to say, your husband
is exposing you to various STDs. If he did that with
me then he is doing it with other women, because he often
gets drunk. Right now, I am a bit worried, because who knows?????
There isnt just physical abuse, remember there
is also emotional abuse. Why put yourself though that???
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH WATCHING YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU
REALLY WANT TO KNOW. NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THE NEED TO KNOW.
DO IT!!!! WATCH HIM!!!!
PASS THIS EMAIL TO EVERY WOMAN YOU KNOW!!!!
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