First impression
While I've been through many rejections & many
friends, I found that the first impression makes a difference.
However, that first impression seems hard to get across
without sounding sleazy or even timid. The first acknowledgment
seems to be the only real response you can get. If you don't
show who you really are in that spotlight moment, you are
lost forever in the depths of loser's purgatory. Even
if the first impression comes off a little weird but the
person accepts you, that's still how they judge you
from that point on. It is only after many months to years
that this 'Barrier' can be broken down as the person
see the light in you. Whether you are a real sleaze or someone
who is a true person, the light does dawn if you hang around
long enough. So, then, how does one get a first impression
to last (assuming you are being real with the other person)?
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