how and where to find the perfect swinging couple

my girlfriend and i have talked about a 3 or 4-some for a few
months now. we are both ready and have decided when the time
comes, we will take things step by step. start with voyeurism,
then kissing and feelind around, then oral sex with the
other person, etc. however, we are having trouble finding
people. we dont think we could go to a swing club. we have
an add on Adult FriendFinder but are getting no responses. we have thought
about friends but we are afraid we could lose our friendship
or start feeling awkward around our friends. where else
do we look?

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