What is truly a swinger?
Hi everyone...I am definately not the type to make stereotypes
out of people because of their sexual drive, but as you all
know, the world gives us these stereotypes and I am still
trying to find out which one I actually fit in.
When a man has alot of sex with many women, he is called a stud
by his friends, envied by other men, and always seems to
find a woman ready to have sex with him because they consider
him experienced
When a woman has alot of sex with many women, she is usually
called slut or whore, picked on by other woman and looked
down at, but always loved by the men who think they can get
apiece from her, but they usually are not interested in
more.
When a couple has alot of sex with many others, they are usually
called swingers and find their friends in a circle of people
with the same interests. They have alot of friends and acquaintances
in this circle and are usually enjoying life and having
a good relationship.
My questions is, why aren't the first two swingers
as well. All men love sex and wished they had more. truth
is the ones who brag about having so many, usually have the
fewest and couldn't tell a woman's asshole from
a hole in the wall. Women who are called sluts only because
they choose to live out their fantasies instead of sitting
around wishing for sex and cutting down the women that have
it, they are people I envy...ok, there are some sluts in
the world, and many enjoy the title, but the most are just
open, sexually active women. Why are men and women so hard
on women who want to enjoy sex, and so easy on men. because
of this it causes many people to hook up with the wrong ones
and hurts alot of people in the long run.
I see the word swingers, as anyone, a couple, single or group,
that enjoys to explore the world of sex with many others.
They should be handled evenly wether woman or man, wether
in a relationship or alone. I would love to be accepted in
to this stereotype. Wouldn't it be a better world if
sexually active people were just swingers and not many
other names, and of course the non-sexually active ones,
well they are the non-swingers...right...
Just some food for thought. I never met a woman or a man who
loved sex, that I consider a lesser person than me or anybody
else. It makes them actually a better person for being able
to express their feelings and set them into gear.
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