Swinging can be great but you must be open mined!!
My hunny and I have been swinging for approx. 4 years. We
have had some great times and some bad.
When you go into a swingers party, you seem to find out soon
who you click with and who you don't.
The problems I've found at some of the swing parties
we have attended is the people that need to have that perfect
10 body to play with. Swinging is suppose to be open minded
so for all of you that need that perfect 10 should probably
not be in this lifestyle.
Our goals in this lifestyle is to meet people that are fun
and that we can continue to be friends with and meet alone
also. Some that we have had sexual encounters with were
petite and others obese. It's the peoples personalities
that attracted us and not the looks. That's the way
it should be.
We have also seen the couples that come and don't participate
in the activities at all. That is just fine for the new commers
to the life style but if your gonna be over protective of
your partner then this probably isn't your lifestyle
either.
We have found that swinging has brought us closer together
as a couple and broadened our sexual fantisies as a couple.
It's a great lifestyle but you all must remember, If
you think you have any jealousy about what your partner
does or you just want the biggest cock or the skinniest woman
there? IT'S NOT FOR YOU!
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