How Hubby asked me to swing with him :-)
I was the apprehensive one to try this, (the wife)My husband
mentioned it jokingly at first. Then he invited me to browse
some swinger sites he had recently joined.We began browsing
together. He told me of fantasies that he had, Things that
excited him about doing this, And really listened to my
reservations and fantasies, and got me aroused thinking
about fulfilling mine as well as his.We began chatting
with other couples together, Then I began to see that "swingers"
were real people, not just freaks and perverts. I agreed
to meet with some of them with my husband, and when the meeting
with the right couple came along, I was the one that initiated
the idea that I was ready.It shocked my husband...lol....However,
It was emotional for me, And I think for him as well. When
we got home, we spent one of the most exciting nights together
that we have ever had! He pampered me, (A bubblebath, washed
my hair... we really played it up!)and reassured me that
he "loves" me, and that what we had done was
recreational, nothing substantial as far as relationships
go, We were more intimate with each other than we had ever
been in almost 20 years of marriage(although we had an incredible
intimate relationship before we started swinging). We
really felt a deep soul connection.
We have been swinging for a little over 3 years now, And we
both love it.
I wish everyone of you wanting to try this and or ask your
partner about the possibilities of doing it with you, joy
and luck in this endeavor.It's not for everyone, however
you won't know if it's for the both of you until
you try it ! *wink *wink
If it turns out you had a good time, But are not really that
into it... Just chalk it up to
"Remember that time way back when honey, When we were
"Swinger Curious!?!" And have a smile about
it!
Respectfully Yours,
MsCoupleInLuv
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