Bi-fem - how to meet others like me?
I'm 38 and have known I'm bi since high school. I've had numerous
relationships with men and a couple lesbian relationships.
I'm currently married to a man who is very supportive of
my need to be with women. The problem is how to meet them?
Ideally, we'd find a woman (or couple) that we'd enjoy for
more than sex - hanging out, movies, dinner, etc. But I haven't
been able to find a single woman willing to be with me in front
of my hubby (or with my hubby). Hitting on another woman
has always intimidated me, unless I was certain she was
bi or gay. On the other hand, although we're open to the possiblity
of a soft-swing or a swap, it's not a given. The couples we've
met want the "whole thing" and don't seem interested in
allowing the women to make love without the guys involved
- even though I'd love for them to be in the same room.
We're in So. Cal. (the Inland Empire) and would love to know
where to go to meet people like us!
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