Simple & Easy is Better
We needed a place that was airconditioned because of the
heat. It had to be covered because it is our rainy season
which happens mostly at the time that we were going to meet.
We also needed a place somewhat close to both homes. AND
we needed somewhere to meet that was interesting &
had restaurants near by.
We met at the Millenium Mall. It took me forever to FIND it
& his trip wasn't much better for all that it was
only about 20 minutes from either of our homes. He waited
for me at the entrance to Macy's while I sashayed up
the hill from parking.
I made the effort to shake his hand but he remembered things
from my profile & pulled me into a hug. We walked a bit
in the mall; fascinating place & talked for awhile.
In the process of going through doors & checking out
stores, his hand stole over portions of my body, & when
our skin would touch, tingles ran down both of our bodies...
I knew that for whatever reason; we had a spark that would
need to be tested further.
After a while we found the store directory & took the
elevator down to the first floor to see the various restaurants.
It took about 4 minutes to decide from a menu that we'd
try two appetizers & two desserts with beverages at
one of the more interesting choices. That gave us time to
sit & relax & chat. Good things.
We took our time trying out the food & delving into pasts
futures & presents. Breaking bread with a stranger
makes that person less a stranger & there is a lot of
tension in a first date that has to be gotten through before
you can make a friendship start.
After our meal we walked back to where our cars were parked
& found a nice shady spot to talk in again. I turned my
back to him on purpose & he oozed up to me, threaded his
arms through mine & cuppled my breasts with his fine
hands. He nuzzled my neck & I thought that my breasts
would burst out of their staid bra & no sleeve tunic...
I'm afraid that I could not control my breathing at
that point & we hadn't even kissed. That was remedied
forthwith.
He asked about our second date & I told him that he could
email/ call me that night if he had time... that I was amenable
& I hoped that he would call...soon.
It was less than 24 hours. I must have made a good impression.
I had the good fortune of meeting someone with a sense of
humor & the ability to see beyond the fantasy.
Making the first date non-pressurized is not easy but worth
every moment of the future. Making no committments or judgements
until the second date is quite nice too. Gives time to fuel
the thoughts & put flesh into the equation...
Much better than some of the things that could & have
happened over the years. Adult FriendFinder does work.
FireOwlLady sends
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