Should you make love on the first date?
Since all you are doing is making love, with no proposal
for a relationship or indeed marriage then what is the harm,
especially if you have connected with someone from Adult
friend finder which is in itself an icebreaker. If you
do decide to make love on the first date, or a later date then
it is to the womans advantage to do it at her home, where
she can feel comfortable and relaxed, also if at any time
she wants to call a halt for any unjustifiable reason then
she wont have to find her way home, as would be the case if
she decided to go back to his home. As to why men, having waited
or not sometime before having sexual relations with a woman
dont contact her again, this could be because it was an
anti-climax. From my own experience, the lady in question
came back to my flat (we had gotten to know one another by
writing to each other for the past 2/3 months) but objected
to me going down on her, which is a main turn on for me since
I am an excellent pussy licker. Some time later I discovered
that she was bi-sexual and was still intimately involved
with another woman. That failure, as such did not put me
off and on the 3rd date/occasion, that we made love (she
was separated from a jealous husband), I managed to persuade
her into letting me go down on her, after which she didnt
say NO again indeed, she occasionally placed her hands
behind my head so that she could take control of my tongue
as it played with her T-spot. Over the next several years
we indulged in the most amazing and varied love making that
either of us had experienced & experimented with.
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