Red needs help
Ok ppl I recently signed up and posted a profile with pics
and I have to say, I'm a little discouraged. If this
were a club/bar, theatre, or the mall, though I rarely have
a problem striking up a conversation and setting up a day
at a coffee shop or a one nighter, I do get rejected as well.
This doesn't bother me, I know its a part of life, no
biggie. Its the reason for the turn down that really bothers
me. I've actually asked girls, once they say, "No"
why they said that. After all, if its something I can improve
on, let me know. Do I have bad breath, do I have bags under
my eyes? What? To my surprise most girls I asked said, "I
don't date redheads." I was shocked, I mean why
does that make any difference. Like all guys with red hair
are the same, and 'that' is unattractive? I understand
having a preference about hieght, weight, even ethnicity,
but hair color? Its not dyed, ( not that I have a problem with
dyes, hehe blue hair is kinda sexy ) Its not a wig, its mine
and its all natural. Not all red heads are clowns or comedians.
I do have a great sense of humor and a my friends say I am an
intence person to be around. But I'm not Carrot Top
or Ronald McDonald. I can be very serious and extremely
sensual. But if this is the way the world views me, so be it.
Just curious what you all think. Guys, Help! Any advice
on what to say or how to approach this whole deal. Am I saying
too much or not enough. Girls, you're welcome to make
suggestions too. How can I get noticed. Or am I just a lost
cause, lol. So yeah, thanks all.
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