Re: This could be alot easier if a basic knowledge of English is possesed
together: You are 100% right about *really* reading profiles
and only responding to those that you are a fit for. It is
a major friction point on dating sites. The problem is that
people get frustrated easily when they have exhausted
the supply of 5 star matches and still have not gotten a response.
If this were meeting people you run into at work, parties,
bars, introduced by friends, or any other thing where they
get to know *something* about you in person, you find that
they are usually willing to shift a little of their criteria
because they see that you have something of value to offer.
You *don't* get that on dating sites though. Well,
at least *very* rarely.
One of the things I find frustrating here is that many of
the women that I do have 100% matches on have not filled out
enough of their profiles to allow for a proper match through
the Adult FriendFinder search. That is also a waste of my time, but if I want
to find someone it is part of the price I have to pay.
I guess my main point here is there are plenty of things to
get frustrated with on a dating site. Try not to let it get
to you and *always* remember that whether it is through
ads, IM, chat, or e-mail there is always another person
on the other side of the communication. We all need to try
to be considerate and courteous even when we find ourselves
getting frustrated.
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