Maximizing Your Replies
Here's my general strategy on how to up your chances
on dating sites like this.
Before I do, I should preface this by saying that in my opinion,
the vast majority of female ads on here are fakes. I also
believe that the majority of the others are so specific
about what they want physically (MUST be over 6ft tall,
MUST have cock 9+ inches) even if bordering on the anal retentive
or absolutely ridiculous(ridiculous because these women
or couples in most cases aren't anywhere close to our
sexual ideal either, themselves overweight, small breasted
etc), that if you're an everyday guy you're highly
unlikely to get a response, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. They're
looking for fantasies, not reality. The logic that they
are just as unlikely to find their fantasy ideal as you are
to get a reply from them doesn't come into it.
That's reality on Adult FriendFinder, and it sucks, but.....
I DO believe that there are those out there who are tired
of searching for the unrealistic, or never did in the first
place. Men, women, and couples who perhaps started out
looking for a "Super Stud" or a "Big Boobed
Blondie" but now just want great fun and sex with people
like themselves.
The best way to get THEIR attention, is to be unique. Obviously
if you look average, you're unlikely to be unique in
your physicality, but you can be in your reply style. Think
about all those guys who "beg" women and couples
for responses, "Would you like to fuck me?"
"You are soooo sexy, please write me sometime!"
Who wants to reply to that?
Sell yourself, have a sense of humor in your reply, if there's
something funny in their profile, that they may not have
intended, TEASE THE HELL OUT OF THEM ABOUT IT! :p
Also, don't give them too much of a resume' about
you, that's what your profile is for. Spend your time
talking about THEM, not just their pix, in fact I would suggest
you say zip about their pix, unless there's a joke there
someplace. Think of it as a "Profile Critcal Review, "
and you're letting them know why they get "two
balls up" lol.
Invite them to look at your profile and then leave it at that,
no invite to contact, because that comes off as begging,
besides they KNOW that you want a reply already, if you took
the time to contact them.
These are just some general pointers, and I guarantee nothing,
the fact is you should expect not to get a response most of
the time, the majority are just too hopelessly picky! (so
so sad they are...)
But, if you want any chance at all at landing a "good
one" then this is the best way to go!
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