Honesty
There are many different factors that are important in
choosing a potential partner; physical appearance, a
sense of humor, distance, living arrangement, height,
weight, smoking preference, and mental stability. I think
that the most important is honesty. It is important to not
only be very honest with your potential partner(s) but
to be honest with yourself. Are you ready for this? Can you
handle a relationship initiated by sex? Are you prepared
to give 100% to your new aquired partner withour reservation?
I haven't been a member for a long time but have read
in some profiles and seen the topic many times in chat rooms
about people talking the talk but not walking the walk.
If this is what you are interested in, finding people(s)
to have sex with then you are in the right place. If you want
to dabble but not commitment yourself, please think twice
because there are people here who may be interested in you
only to be let down because you got scared or had second thoughts
or are not sure if this is something you an handle. I am not
talking about not clicking, I am talking about being honest
with yourself. People search and search Adult FriendFinder for someone
that they can really click with; the process may take some
time. Hooking up with a person that seems like a great match
only to have that person get cold feet the night before the
"date" is frustrating. If you have never been
there, try to imagine you are all worked up and excited in
meeting your new "friend" and suddenly he/she/they
call it off. You are dumb founded, you wonder it it is something
that you said? The response you get is that he/she/they
are scared. While everyone has experienced being scared;
one of the unwritten rules on a swingers/sex friendfinder
site is that you are here because you want to have sex. If
you want to just stick your toes in the water, AOL and Yahoo
have chat rooms for you to do that. I love to chat and flirt
online; it is a wonderful opportunity. It is a simple truth.
Everyone knows that rules; flirt and talk as long and as
deeply as you want because everyone knows that it will go
no where. It is honest fun and everyone enjoys it. I don't
want to come across as unsensitive; I just want to have the
flirters on one side of the room and the doers on the other.
Send the E-mails back and forth on Adult FriendFinder, exchange personal
E-mail addresses, trade cell phone numbers, meet for coffee.
If everything is clicking and connecting up to this point,
what is stopping you? If you do have some issues which would
prevent you from "going all the way", I think
that you should have been honest with yourself as well as
you new partner(s) and dealt with them before you decided
to bait your hook. Do I sound angry? I am not really; disappointed
yes, confused definitely.
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