My Guide To Oral Pleasure for Him and Her
A Guide to Oral Pleasure
Chapter 1:
The best way to give a blowjob.
First off its not about how you do it but why you do it. If
you suck a cock yes we will call it cock because you want to,
really want to thats the first place to start. If you suck
a cock only because you feel you should or have to, to please
another then its never going to be good. I do not care what
technique you use or how far you can deep throat it if you
do not really love a cock in your mouth then its just mechanical.
That being said next is some technique that goes along with
desire. Sucking cock is not much different than eating
pussy. If I was a woman I could tell if the man was eating me
just to get his cock sucked or to fuck me. There is a really
big difference in feeling. I truly great pussy eater will
feel his/her (have to allow for lesbians) woman. They will
know what she is feeling where the "right" spot
is the correct amount of friction and the proper placement
of the tongue and the place that make her go crazy, they will
know when "not" to stop they will know that once
a certain point is reached you cannot even take a breath
that you will finish her make her cum in all her glory. Then
breathe. Teasing a cock is like teasing a pussy its a nice
way to get it ready and excited. You cannot be afraid of cum
in your mouth either else a truly good suck is out of the question.
Ok you might be not want to get cum shot all over your face
but being afraid of it will limit your ability to really
get into sucking.
On this topic. If you really learn to read a cock like a good
pussy eater can read a pussy then you will not have to be afraid
of the cum shot in your mouth, that is if you do not want it.
You will know when that cock is ready to explode a load and
can pull out and let it shoot on his stomach, or where ever
else you like it without worry of a shot in the mouth. Now
if you learn to like cum then you'll also know when and
be ready depending on volume it can make it hard to breathe
and or swallow or the hold it in your mouth so you can spit
method. It all about feel and knowing paying attention
and learning, experience also cums into play so the more
you suck cock the better you will get. I have loved to eat
pussy for over 20 years thats why I do it so good. So the first
attempts my not be what you wanted but stick with it and it'll
come to you (no pun intended).
Ok back to the how. Its nice to start with a few nice soft
kisses, running the tongue up and down the shaft. If he is
hard already licking is easy, if he is not hard yet then you
can hold it in one hand and lick and kiss the head, he will
rise to the occasion. Now sucking cock and eating pussy
again run parallel, a clean cock is like a clean pussy the
better the person is cleaned the better and longer you will
suck just like pussy. If its clean and fresh one can lick
for hours. Kissing and licking and gently sucking the balls
will also help in getting a cock nice and hard and ready to
be sucked. Kiss them lick them gently suck them, and for
those that crave adventure there is the area just beneath
the balls that drives a man wild when a warm hot tongue is
run across it. You do not have to go into rimming if that totally
turns you off, although I have not met a woman yet that did
not like that and made her even more hot but to each their
own in that place.
Once you have your cock nice and hard then its up to you. You
do not have to be able to deep throat a 10" cock in order
to give on fantastic blowjob. Once again its attitude and
how you get into it. If you use your tongue and lips you'll
drive him crazy and you can take as much as you can in your
mouth without worry of not being pleasing. Remember those
girls in the movies that can swallow a 10" cock do it
every day many times a day and should not be looked at as a
normal blow job. Ok now you can mouth your mouth up and down
the hard cock, use your hand and or hands (depends on size
of the cock) to stroke it while you suck. Once again its
more about your partner and knowing or feeling what he likes.
One man might love a strong suck where another is more turned
on by softer gentler sucking. Learn to read your cock! Now
another issue is precum. Some men will have little to none,
some like me will drip and drip lots of the slippery juice,
you must not be afraid again. Learn to either not pay attention
or learn when its time to fuck I guess. Ok now you are sucking
and licking his nice hard cock, you can rub it on your lips,
slap your tongue with it. Depends if you want to give a sensual
blowjob or a little on the nasty side. Both are great and
welcomed and can be done alone or combined. It is always
nice to squeeze it from the base to the head not to hard just
hard enough to milk some of the pre cum out the head then look
right in his eyes and lick it from the head. This will make
him squirm.
While sucking he might push your head down learn to take
all you can but resist a little. Its no fun to choke and its
really a bad thing to gag and puke on your partner learn to
control him as well. Gently rubbing his balls will make
him feel very good as well. Rub them kiss and lick them and
stroking his hard cock will get him closer and closer to
the point of bursting. Now here is where men differ from
women. A man can be brought to the point of shooting his load
and stopped and brought back very easy. If you give up on
a pussy you are in BIG trouble. Women have a much harder time
in general reaching that magic point than a man does. Women
are much more mental with orgasm where men its 99% physical
and 1% mental. We do not need to think to cum we just cum. So
rest assured you will not have a problem there. Most men
would cum when you put the cock in your mouth so watch out.
Once again learn to control the cock if you want more pleasure.
Let him no you are in control of the cock not him. Take him
to the brink a few times, this is fun and will get you a much
bigger surprise in the end. Personally I love to almost
cum many times before I finally cross that road, but then
watch out.
Ok you have sucked and licked his cock, rubbed licked and
kissed his balls. His cock is rock hard and swollen. Its
now time to work on the finish. Now depending on position
and what you want done there are different way to handle
this firehose in your hands and mouth. Ok if your plan is
to take all that hot juices in your mouth and either spit
or swallow then hold it at the base and when you fell it start
to shoot go with the flow let him control the motion just
stroke his cock with his motions. Until he wants to pull
it out of your mouth. Now if you are one that swallows take
it as you can then once he pulls his cock from your mouth swallow
the last drops before taking one last nice suck to get any
remaining drops of that creamy nectar. Now if this is a more
nasty blow job he might take control and have you open your
mouth and stick your tongue out and just stroke his cock
while he shoots into your mouth and onto your tongue. Once
again you have to decide to hold it and spit or to wait and
swallow. Once again wait until he seems to be finished before
you take his cock in your mouth to give that one nice final
suck. Ok the last we will talk about is that I want to get nasty
and have a facial. This is where you are ready; you know you'll
need a shower after but fuck it who cares. You have teased
the cock made him almost cum time and again. Now he is ready
and you are as well. He will take his cock in his hand and stroke
it perhaps slap your face a bit with it. Getting ready until
he blasts it shooting and dripping his cum all over your
face mouth and anyplace else he chooses and all the while
you just take it with a smile on your face. A little flinch
when he first shoots is expected but then you must greet
it with a smile, lap it up lick it up show him you love cum.
Let him rub his cock in the cum all over your face. Then take
it in your mouth and suck it clean.
Ok this is just a portion of a good blow job there are many
other ways to deal with cum. Have him cum on your tits, your
stomach stand over you and just cum all over your body. Many
different techniques can be added or removed. The number
one thing to remember is DESIRE if you show desire it will
be great. If you show fear or dislike no matter the technique
it'll not be good.
For all the men learn to eat pussy well, do not just eat pussy
to get head. For women if you suck cock well and he eats pussy
well then you are in heaven. Since this is written to a woman
for a woman the guide to eating pussy is not included. That
article will follow later in the guide for oral pleasure.
Chapter 2
Preparing the Kitty or Dinner
I will start this with a little background on me. First I
am a man that loves to eat pussy and have for many years. I
loved to give oral even before I had actual sex. It seems
like all my sexual life I have simply loved to please a woman,
to me there is nothing better than to be close and inside
a woman with my tongue, my lips and my face. I was trained
by a woman to please a woman so that has also helped me over
the years. Having been raised with sisters and many sisters
friends I have always been close to women, able to talk and
relate to them. I am also an old fashioned type of man; I open
doors, send flowers and truly respect women. I was never
able to be the macho man that thought a woman place was where
ever and what ever he thinks it should be.
Ok I started eating pussy at an early age; actually it was
a fascination that started me on my quest and desire. The
first time I saw a picture of oral sex in an old porn magazine
I knew I was hooked, I could not wait to try it. I had no idea
what I was doing at first; most men never know what they are
doing so that was a start. I had the desire though, I wanted
to learn, and I loved it. Its funny I cannot remember most
lovers in my life but I can remember the first time I ever
tasted a woman. I had no idea in the early days of how to please
a woman all I knew was that I loved to be down there, to be so
close to a woman that nothing else mattered. That is also
one of the reasons I am so good at eating pussy because I do
not care about me all I can think of is the woman, making her
feel pleased making her cum and cum again. If a woman wants
more that is only icing on the cake.
I think when I really learned to eat pussy was when I met a
woman that was 10 years older than me, she was also Bi and
loved woman, she also like the idea of a young guy that was
horny all the time but wanted to learn. She taught me how
to eat pussy for hours, how to read a womans body, how not
to stop at the point where she was ready to cum. Women are
not like men, a man can almost cum and stop and then reach
that point really quickly, with most women if you miss it
you have missed it. Most men have no clue about a woman they
could care less as long as he cums that is what matters, well
there are a few men out there that love women, that admire
and respect a woman and that will take the time to please
a woman, its just most women are not attracted to this kind
of man. See we are more sensitive, more caring, we may show
our emotions more. A lot of women look at this as a sign of
weakness.
I am not an angel by any means and do not profess to be one.
I am however a man that cares, one that respects women and
one that loves to please a woman. When I eat pussy nothing
else matters, I could care less about myself. I have even
been with women that were lesbians and left my clothes on
during sex. See there is a big difference between a man that
loves to eat pussy and a man that will lick you a minute then
its your turn.
Over the years (I am not that old either) I have been asked
many times by women how I like pussy. I mean do I like it shaved,
natural, partially shaved, waxed etc; etc; I generally
have one answer, I like it clean, fresh and ready to be licked
for a long time. I can eat pussy for hours so if we have to take
a break and freshen up thats fine no need to just rush it.
I would rather lick and suck a hairy clean pussy than a not
so clean shaved pussy. Actually shaved is not the best anyway.
I think some men have this little girl fantasy and thats
why they think a shaved pussy is so neat. A shaved pussy for
a man that really loves to eat pussy can be a painful experience.
See if you lick for a minute or two it may not matter but eating
pussy for a long time on a shaved pussy that has not been shaved
for a day or two can be like rubbing your face on a mad that
has not shaved for a couple days as in ouch that hurts. Now
trimming is fine is not so painful yet keeps you nicely groomed.
If you want the bald look then I would suggest waxing yes
that is a really big ouch but it will leave the pussy soft
and smooth and ready for eating for extended periods of
time. A natural pussy is fine, I know the whole bikini thing
but if you are not going to the beach then you may not need
to worry and can just trim if you are or think you are to hairy.
Some women are very lucky and have very little body hair;
some have lots and feel they are not as attractive. Some
men are the same way so use trimming and shaving and waxing
to fit your needs, just remember a true pussy eater does
not really care.
Ok back to the clean thing. I would never allow a woman to
give me head if I were not clean. I know some men could care
less its suck my dick and get on with it. Well if a man loves
head he should make sure he is clean for you. I love to eat
pussy and I love it clean and fresh. I do not care there is
plenty of time to wash it and make it ready. This may get a
little to graphic and I am sorry if you feel so. But as I stated
I have been asked many times how I like pussy so I decided
to write it. When you wash, do not just wash the outside wash
inside as well, now if you also like a man to rim you a bit then
make sure to wash very, very well back there. You can clean
inside as well. This can be a fantastic addition to eating
pussy. Some women like it others not and many will not admit
that they like it. Most men have a hard enough time just getting
past eating pussy that they will never go there. But if
you are clean and washed very well there is no reason you
cannot have a fantastic oral session. Remember its not
about if its shaved, trimmed or just natural its about
making it taste good. Perfumes do not help and make it worse,
I hate to lick and suck perfume. Just make it clean and fresh.
It will drive the true pussy eater mad. He will never want
to stop.
I have been lucky. I have tasted women of many races, ages
and body types. I never just look for Barbie. I will say eating
pussy is an art not a job. If a man truly loves to eat pussy
you will know it. If he is just doing it to get sex or head or
what ever you will also know and feel it. If you really love
to have oral pleasure find a man that loves to eat pussy he
will please you and please you and not just lick you a minute
and want a blow job. I hate to say it but most men suck and do
not suck well. But have faith there are a few men out there
that love to please, that think passion is more important
than all else.
So remember keep the kitty clean do not worry about all the
shaving and waxing and all the other stuff, clean is number
1. Make sure when you want a man to please you that you find
a true pussy eater fakes are just that. If a man is in touch
with a woman youll have the best pleasure you could imagine.
If he is not then move on.
This was meant to make you laugh a little and also show that
there are men out here that love to please a woman. That also
if you want pleasure there are a couple little things you
can do to help bring it about. Thanks for taking the time
to read this. I could write volumes on how much I love to eat
pussy and all the different things I do with my face my tongue
and my fingers during, how I can read a womans body, how
I can tell when she is ready to explode, but that is an art
and best left for those that want a truly fantastic time.
Chapter 3 Eating Pussy.
Well to start this eating pussy is not like sucking cock.
To be quite honest its easy to suck and man and make him hard.
A man gets hard just thinking of sex. A man will fum in your
mouth or on your face so easily. But making a woman cum orally
is a bit different. You see that almost all men are the same
its easy to get us excited, hard and to make us cum. With a
woman you have to be different. You have to actually show
some feeling and care its not just about fucking and sucking
with a woman, women are totally different and have far different
emotions. A woman beats to a different drum than a man. It
may sound corny and stupid but you have to have a heart when
you eat a womans pussy. Most people (men) have no clue. They
think if they put thier face between your legs and lick you
for 30 seconds then they can get a blow job or stick thier
cock in a pussy.
With a woman you have to feel her, know her body and learn
to read what she wants, what she likes and what is making
her hot. Simply sticking your tongue in her pussy will not
work. She requires more than that. Be sensual and erotic,
then if it is going good you can work to being a bit more wild
and through in a little nasty as well.
Ok now it is really important that if you want to do a fantastic
job eating pussy than it is also important that the pussy
you will be eating is also ready. I will not go into all the
details that is covered iin the article "Preparing
the Kitty for Dinner" the woman you will eat will not
mind being ready if she knows that you will give her simply
the best oral she has had.
Ok I will describe to different entry points. The first
will be if she is laying on her back. I would start in getting
the engine warmed up. You should start in by kissing her
neck running your hot tongue all around her neck and kissing
and sucking her ear lobes. While sucking and licking her
neck and ear lobes I like to give the ears a little bite adds
a touch of hotness to the action. If you like some nice deep
kissing is also quite nice to get her in the starting position.
Now as you work your way down to her breasts you can take one
in your hand and start to kiss and lick it. Then of course
move the the other. Remember women have 2 tits and 2 nipples
and it is quite important to spend equal time on both, and
while sucking and licking one rub and play with the other.
With a woman there is no need to just jump into the pussy,
not unless you only have a short time and you know hse just
wants you to get down there and lick her. I love to take my
time. I want her pussy hot and wanting by the time my tongue
gets there. I want her to want me to eat her so badly that she
almost grabs my head and forces me to eat her. When she is
at the point of forcing you, then you will know she is ready
to be pleased.
As you suck her nipples you can take a hand and start to rub
her legs, massage them firmly to start to avoid tickling
her and taking her mind off the pleasure. Once she is use
to your touch you can start to use a lighter and more eroticly
sensual touch. Do not head straight for her pussy either.
Make her wait make her hot make her want it more and more.
Run your fingers across her lips but do not open them nor
put your fingers in her. Just let he know you are there. If
she has hair on her pussy or even a landing strip run your
fingers through her hair. I actually love a woman that has
at least some hair on her pussy it makes me crazy as well.
Now you can start to kiss and run your tongue down her stomach.
Run your tongue in circles all over her belly button maybe
even take your tongue and lick her belly buttin as you are
going to lick her pussy. This again will make her want you
to put your tongue in her. Now you can begin to rub her pussy
with your hand and fingers a little more, run your hand down
and cum the cheeks of her ass. Let her open her legs wider
and wider for you, do not open them your self. If you are making
her hot she will open them wider and wider for you as you work
ever closer to her hot pussy. You will be able to feel how
hot her pussy is, you will be able to tell if her pussy is starting
to get dripping wet with just a touch of your fingers.
Now run your fingers up her pussy lips, open ing them just
enough so you can feel that she is hot and wet and start to
take your tongue and trace her pussy. Do not go for her lips
or clit yet just trace her pussy. If she is shaved or waxed
baled just follow where her pussy hair would be. Getting
closer and closer to her lips with each pass. Run your tongue
down really low and kiss and lick the base of her butt cheeks.
Now take your tongue and start to trace her pussy lips with
it. Go slow and easy follow each and every tuck and fold of
her lips with your tongue, run your tongue between the hot
wet lips of her pussy and open them. Do not use your hands
or fingers just your tongue and lips. Kiss her and lick her.
Make love to her pussy with your mouth. Feel her as she wiggles
her ass to get your face deeper inside her. Now you can open
her lips with your fingers and take your tongue and flick
her clit, slow and easy taking her clit between your lips
and sucking her. Suck her clit very good. Now each woman
if different. Some love you to suck it hard others soft and
gently. This is where all the ability to read a woman starts
to come into play. You have to be able to see what is getting
her off the most. If sucking her gently works do that if when
you suck her hard that works then suck her harder. You can
also start to slide your tongue deep inside her now. I love
to slide my tongue deep inside a womans hot wet pussy, as
far as I can get it inside her, rubbing her clit with my nose
as I slide my long hot tongue deeper and deeper inside her.
I like to use my entire face while licking and sucking a woman.
If she grabs your head and pushes you deep into her then just
go with it. Its like sucking a cock you learn how to breathe
when you can hardly catch a breath. Now you can slide a finger
in her slowly just 1 to start. Take her clit between her lips
and suck and lick it while you finger her. By now she should
be really hot and willing to let you take charge. Just remember
to read her. If you stop what feels good she might loose it.
Women are hard to get going again sometimes so pay attention
to her. Now is also where you can start to add a bit more nasty
if you like. I would start by putting 2 fingers in her. Then
maybe 3 or what ever she can take. Now is also the time I would
roll my tongue down across her asshole. If she moans or sighs
as your tongue crosses her asshole then you know she likes
it. Most women will not say "lick my ass" but
rather wait and see if you will do it. Also that is if you want
to go there. Not everyone is into licking anothers asshole.
But if a woman is very very clean it will drive her nuts and
you can lick her ass while sliding your fingers in her. Also
if she likes this she might like you to finger her ass and
pussy at the same time. I love to work between her ass and
her pussy lickng and sucking each hole. Then I would take
a finger and very slowly slide it in her asshole and then
1 finger in her pussy. If she gets into it then start to suck
her clit while fingering each hole. She will soon cum for
you as you work the speed and deepness of your fingers inside
her. If she does not like a finger in her ass just finger her
pussy and suck her clit. Suck her until she explodes all
over your face. Once she starts to cum keep sucking and licking
her. Probe her asshole with your toongue and make hse scream
with pleasure.
Remember its all about reading the woman. Its also about
a love for pussy. Most men and a lot of women do not know how
to eat pussy. They think you put your face there and lick
a little then thats it. I love to make love to a womans pussy
with my face. I use my tongue my fingers my entire face on
her. I make her relaxed and make her want to hold my face deep
in her pussy for ever. I simply put her needs and desires
frist. If you make her cum so hard that she forgets who she
is when its your turn you will get more than you ever dreamed.
Remember take your time with her. Lick her and suck her good,
show her how much you want to be between her legs with your
face. That eating her pussy gives you as much pleasure as
it is giving her. I can eat pussy for hours without stopping.
I am a true pussy eater and there is nothing that gives me
more pleasure than eating pussy. I also love to lick a womans
ass and love to hear her moan and say oh my oh my as my tongue
licks and probes her ass.
Once she has cum let her catch a breath, then gently and softly
kiss and lick her lips. Then if you wish and she is into it
get her engine running again and work on making her cum more.
I have med a woman cum 7 times in a row this way.
Ok now if you want to ear about starting off with her on her
stomach I will write that as well, it is very similar you
just work your way down the back. I like to do this when I already
know a woman is into a lot of ass play. That she loves her butt
kissed and licked and likes you to eat her doggy style.
Just remember its easy to suck a cock and get a guy off. You
do not have to show any emotion jsut stick his cock in your
mouth and if you are not careful he will blast a load in your
throat or all over your face as soon as he can. With a woman
you take your time, get her so fucking horny she cannot take
it anymore then make her cum so hard she will never want your
lips to leave her pussy. Make her cum FIRST always then more
times if you want before you ever do anything about your
needs.
Now if you are a woman and read this and love to get oral pleasure
please feel free to contact the author about setting up
you own in home demonstration.
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