Why is sex the only part of a relationship that seems to matter to men
Can any one tell me why it seems to be the only part of a relationship
that seems to matter to men is the sex.I understand that
it is an important part but that is not all there is to having
a good relationship.I have been married for 18 years now
and in the beginning it was always at least 3 times a day, but
now I am older I don't have the energy that I once had and we
have kids so we can't just drop what we are doing at anytime
and run to the bedroom.The problem I am having now is that
my husband is obsessed with porn for about 2 years now, and
about every 2 weeks gets very angry with me because he feels
that I don't care about him enough to give him all the sex
that he wants all the time and in a round about way will threaten
to leave me if I can't give him what he wants , now mind you
I have already told you that we have been together for 18
years have 2 kids and so on and at a minimum have sex 3 times
a week , so having said all that can someone tell me if they
feel that I am lacking in my wifely duties.I also have to
add that other then us having sex he seems to pretty much
ignore me, any other time he hardly talks to me , even when
I try to have a conversation with him I get no response because
he does not seem to care about what I have to say or the topic
does not interest him.When it comes to us his focus is on
sex and nothing else where our everyday lives are concerned.Am
I wrong for feeling like I am getting the short end of the
stick .
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