I think it's really rude to IM people or e-mail people
whose preferences you don't meet. Esp for people who
do standard searches. On chat rooms, it can't be helped
sometimes, but why do you think someone would all of a sudden
change their desires after taking one look at you? Doubtful.
Ex. Men who bombard lesbians with e-mails. She doesn't
want your penis or anyone else's for that matter!
Also, much older, shorter, fatter, bald, shady, or just
plain unattractive men. I know that there are more men than
women on this site so there's more demand for the ladies
but even still. When one decides that they are not looking
for you, that's it. No need to be rude or snippy. It's
rude to harass people who don't want you. There's
someone out there for everyone so they say. Different people
like different things. RESPECT THEIR PREFERENCES, EVEN
IF IT DOES NOT INCLUDE YOU.
I'm not being hypocritical. I've talked to people
on here who weren't interested in me and that's
fine. The nice thing to do is wish them well. Why would you
want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?!
I've started MANY conversations with people who upon
finding out my ethnicity (when I sent them pics pretty much)
who cut off communication. I may not like it, but I respect
it because really, what choice do I have?
So you can either be an obnoxious pain in the ass that'll
be blocked by everyone or you can be normal.
