Love her, not self
Changes come to us if we live an active life with people.
For example In the beginning my desire was to see how I felt
when I was in the woman. I knew how pleasing it was to empty
my dick. I did not know where the cum came from. My cousin
told me how good it was to fuck when we were out in the barn
where bulls were breeding cows, which made no sound of pleasure,
whereas the bull moaned and grunted in the act. So, when
I had my first woman (an older one, sweet) I thought only
of having the thrill of the kind my cousin said it was. He
thought only of himself. He wanted to conquor and "fuck"
the woman, by his talk. It was never told to me by him that
the woman wanted to have her orgasm too. He told me that the
woman loved the cock and fucked to please the man and ease
the aching cock.
But and a big But, what a change came to me when I learned from
a dear sweet, kind, and persistant older woman that she
and other women wanted to fuck with and not just get "fucked"
by a male's firm active cock. And what an education
when she showed me her "little dick" the clit,
she called it. She showed me how to find hers with my tongue
-- it was not easy to do. In those early learning sessions
the word love was not used except to say she loved cock fucking
best of all, which led me to say I also loved pussy fucking.
Strangely, I became too quick old and too late smart with
the woman. When I married I found she had my old original
views of the man was the one in the fuck who had to be satisfied.
It took several efforts with me using my tongue leading
her to cum that I got her to see that I wanted to see her cum
with ny cock in her pussy. She lit up like a streak of lightening
when she got the idea that I wanted us to have that for the
main cause for our fucking. I showed her how easy it was for
me to ejaculate and loose the hard, whereas she could cum
and still be wanting it again instantly. We began to concentrate
on her pleasure instead of mine. She helped me to take my
mind off my cock and its wanting to cum and put hers on first
in mind and effort. There is a strange reciprocation taking
place in complete fucking. Both are trying their utmost
to please the other and thereby getting the best, inintentionally,
for themselves. An after thought: Whores do not make good
fuck teachers. It takes LOVE and LOVING the mate in sex more
than self to get the most out of it. We all make changes and
we should. In marriage it would be better for some pre-marriage
experiences to be left in the place where they happened.
My testimony: My desire to see my wife enjoy the fuck when
she had laid her body down and spread her legs to prove it
was the cause of my wanting us to swing. After fertility
left we went for fucking fun I love her more and more for telling
me she wanted to try to fuck three men in a night. We fixed
it up. Then, love your wife or sex mate more than yourself.
joezhabo2
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