Is it wrong to have an affair?
I am a 35 year old woman with my husband being 15 years my elder.
When we were first married,
sex was wonderful. Our sex life has almost completely stopped
since that time and has been
that way for 6 years. I've discussed it with him, even going
into detail of what I would like
to do to spice up our sex life (this wasn't easy for me). He
said it was 'against his nature'
to do the things I suggested (which were quite normal...nothing
really kinky). He also blamed
something being wrong with him (not keeping an erection)
so I suggested he see a Doctor. He
did and Viagra doesn't even help him.
I have gone to great lengths to turn him on (met him at the
door in sexy clothing and
come on to him, candlelight dinners with romantic music,
lots of flirting) only to be
rejected. This doesn't do much for one's self esteem.I
know that he isn't seeing anyone else.
I know I am an attractive woman and I have a strong sex drive.
I feel like I have been
suppressing my sensuality. He knew that I had a big sexual
appetite when he married me.
My question is, considering the circumstances given,
is it wrong for me to have an
affair?
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