Is an afair wrong if it saves the realation ship?
Well here goes nothing. I'm 22 years old and have been
In a steady relationship for about three years now. I love
my other half very much but i also have a big problem that
I don't know how to deal with.
Here is the situation: When me and her make love I get about
the same physical satisfaction as i would if i had jerked
off.
The Factors: She and I have diferent Veiws and needs. She
is like most guys she dosn't last long has one powerfull
orgasim and then can't stand to be touched (says she
is to sensitve) and promptly passes out. While I can orgasim
2 or 3 times and don't remember ever not being ready
for more. Another part is she has gained quite a bit of weight
and i'm becoming less and less phyisically attracted
to her.
The attempts : For the length of the relation ship I have
kept a very steady line of comunication with her and talk
about every thing i have said here including some that i
haven't for keeping the main factors prominate. We
ahev tryed toys, films, counciling, many brutly hounest
conversations, Peer discutions, therapy, Ect but nothing
seems to help.
The problem: After all this I have found my self groing ever
more drawn towords other women. I told my other about this
and after almost breaking up and a long mounth or two of talking
we settled on having a three some so i found some one and then
my other backed out. Now even more than ever my drive towards
other women is very strong and i don't know what to do.
I love my other very much but my personal resolve is thining
PLZ any advise or possable solutions.
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