does it really have to hurt
I would have to say depends on the type of guy/girl your breaking
up with. Me for instance, I just recently broke up with mine.
It wasnt that hard but I do have the sadness every now and
then. The reason is because the guy I was with always had
it in his mind that he was GREAT. He was always right, nothing
he did or say was bad or wrong. Give me a freaking break. I
lived my life to make this guy happy, for over 3 years, i was
misable. I couldnt talk back to him, i couldnt defend myself
no matter what, i was always wrong, i couldnt correct him
on anything. He was GREAT. Then finally i saw the light,
i wanted out of the relationship. I knew if i stayed with
him my life would go no where. I got out and he gave me a choice,
a choice that i would never forget. It was either him or my
family he said. Im sorry but im not sorry, i choose my family.
My family is my life and would always be there for me and he
never understood that. This guy i was with, granted I loved
him but i hated him for the stuff he done. He drank, he lied
numerous of times to me, kept things from me, so much stuff
he has done to me and i just will never forgive him for it.
So this break up for me was not that bad, even though at times
i will be depressed. He only emailed me once to see how i was
doing. after 3 years you would think he would call non stop,
email me non stop, so on and so forth. Apparently I didnt
mean that much to him if he doesnt try to win me back right??
So i ask others out there, does breaking up really have to
hurt? I think sometimes it does and sometimes it doesnt
so much. What is your thought.
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