great sex techniques
First of all..guys, it's not all about getting your rocks
off and assuming she liked it. most of the time women fake
it to protect our fragile ego's...and we have no clue. the
reason women many times don't enjoy themselves to the fullest
when with a partner is because the human brain developes
differenly in males and females. in the first few months
of life, while the brain is still developing inside the
mother's womb, a chemical reaction takes place in males
that retards the growth of a certain region of the brain.
the part that controls our emotions and sensations. men
are born retarded. our brains don't work in the same manner
as a womens, and that is why we can never understand each
other. but that's a different topic. women are emotional
and sensual beings. if u just start hammering away at her,
she may feel as though u don't desire her at all but just sex.
foreplay is often tried (unsuccessfully) by men. playing
with their breasts and using your finger is not foreplay.
be creative..play a game. one good one is to have her place
her palms flat on a desk, place a nickel on the back of each
hand. the object of the game is to try to make her move her
hands and drop the nickels. again..don't just try to bang
it off of her. use soft caresses, feathers, food, kisses,
erotic massage, or whatever. another great idea is something
called "the taking touch". this is one of my favorites.
have your partner lay naked on the bed. start with the wrists
and lightly run your fingers along her skin. use communication.
try different amounts of pressure on her skin until u find
her favorite..some like it lightly trailing their skin,
some like it rough, and some in between. once u have your
rythym, presure, speed all that going well, begin to move
slowly up her arm and down her side. IMPORTANT: don't go
straight to the most erotic regions. women get off on anticipation.
make loose circles on her tummy, run your fingers between
her breasts. get close to the eroginous zones but not quite
there..spend some time doing this..cover her with kisses.
stroke her hair, let her know that you are enjoying this
exploration of her body. a good rule to stick to is that whatever
feels good to your hand, feels good to her too. if u do this
right, she's cum as soon as u put it in. the most important
thing is communication. i know we've all heard that but
we have no clue how to really do it. here's what i did... my
woman stripped down, opened her legs and introduced me
to the female anatomy. she explained what every part was,
which is sensative and which hurt. guys..u need to know
these things. she explained that when she raised her hips
that means she wants all of it. when she does the opposite,
it's too much. going fast isn't as important as keeping
a steady rythym. when she cries out don't go harder and faster..she
cried out because what u were doing was good..keep doing
it. she told me that when she says "oh shit" it's good...when
she works up to "oh fuck" she's getting really close...and
"YES YES YES" means..she's there. and of course when she
shudders uncontrolably..that's good. learn what she
likes and dislikes, experiment, let her tell u about her
body. and u can do the same with her. maybe she likes to be
called "baby" durring sex. most women like to hear us moan
and say dirlty things just like we like them to do it. let
her know how much u desire her, how good she makes u feel.
anyway. i hope some of this is helpful.
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